Momscape Updates: Week of September 20

Here's the latest from Momscape for the week of September 20:


How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty
Do you find it difficult to say no? Do you have a fear of displeasing others? Do you have trouble expressing your true feelings? You're not alone. Author Amber Rosenberg has some answers.

Be Who You Are - Ten Tips for Finding the Real You
Is the essence of who you are covered by all the defenses, insecurities, and adaptations that have accumulated over the years? Robin Rice helps you peel off the layers to reveal what's underneath.

Simple Toys - Healthy Minds
Our favorite simple toys. What are yours?

The Importance of Friendships
Just in case you need a few concrete reasons to call a friend and invite her over for a glass of wine this evening, here are a few things that good friends do for us.


Talking to Your Kids
An age-by-age guide to starting conversations and communicating with your children.

Teeth Whiteners that Work
Which teeth whitening method is right for you? This special report looks at the most popular options - and the costs for each.

My Child Hits Me: What Should I Do?
5 tips for helping kids work through their anger in non-physical ways.

Blah Blah Blog: Advice for Parents of Kids who Blog
"As a preteen or teenager going through life’s normal growth stages, blogging can be very helpful indeed – fostering a social network (even if it is virtual), or providing an outlet for everyday frustrations. But as with any internet enterprise, blogs do raise some parental concerns." Family therapist Dr. Erik Fisher has some advice for parents.

Teaching Children How to Make Friends at School
Parent educator Dyan Eybergen on how parents can help their kids to make friends.

Product Picks

101 Businesses You Can Start with Less than One Thousand Dollars: For Stay at Home Moms and Dads


Mom's 'One Line a Day' Diary
A Five Year journal that makes a wonderful keepsake (and a great gift).

Plum Organics and the Squirt Spoon
My friend call this "The.Best.Invention.for.Babies.Ever."

New on susies-coupons.com

Halloween on a Budget
Halloween Savings Tips

How to Save Money on Shipping
Tips and tricks for finding free shipping deals.

How to Find the Best Credit Card for You
How do you find the best credit card deals? There are many factors to think about before making your selection. Here are four of the most important

Discount Event Tickets: Where to Find Cheaper Tickets for Concerts and Sports Events

Best new coupons:
Banana Republic: 20% off your entire purchase with
code.Ends 9/24

Shoes.com: 20% off with coupon code

Sierra Trading Post: $20 off $100; 25% off $150 

Medifast: $25 off any
purchase of $150 or more; $50 off $275

Target.com:$5 off $50;
Free shipping on $50

New Momscape Newsletter: Homemade Beauty Recipes, Back to School Coupons

The latest Momscape newsletter just went out to subscribers. It features natural beauty recipes, new articles and ideas, new contests, and lots of back to school savings offers and coupon codes.

You can read it online here:
http://www.momscape.com/news-archives/Issue10vol8.htm

If you aren’t a subscriber, you can get snag a free email subscription here:
http://www.momscape.com/subscribe.htm

New Momscape Newsletter: Family Summer Fun, Back to School Savings, New Coupons

I've just published a new Momscape newsletter, featuring ideas for summer family fun, back to school savings, and coupon codes on everything from shoes to backpacks to last minute travel adventures.
You can read the entire issue online here:
http://www.momscape.com/news-archives/Issue8vol8.htm
or subscribe here:
http://www.momscape.com/subscribe.htm
New subscribers are automatically entered to win a $100 Target.com shopping spree.
See site for details.

New Momscape Newsletter

Here's the latest Momscape newsletter, which went to subscribers this afternoon. It's filled with fun and frugal Fourth of July party ideas & recipes, plus some sizzling summer coupon codes, some of which expire over the next few days.

You can read the entire issue here: http://www.momscape.com/news-archives/Issue7vol8.htm

If you aren't already a subscriber, you can get snag a free email subscription here:
http://www.momscape.com/subscribe.htm

The $1800 Grocery Bill

Darren writes:

Hi Gary,

I am at a loss. My wife and I both work and we have 4 kids. We make good money between us but are always living paycheck to paycheck. One big problem is our grocery spending. I was looking at last month's expenses and saw that we spent over $1800 in groceries over the month at one grocery store (that is not a typo). There were a few other stops in there as well at some convenience stores. The really sad thing is we aren't eating steak and lobster - we eat frozen burgers 3-4 times a week and tacos.

As mentioned we both work and although I appreciate suggestions about making everything from scratch, that is not feasible for us. Most times during the week we are not eating dinner until 8pm. We try to shop at Costco (Sam's Club, etc.) but all that does is rack up a huge $400-600 bill there and then we still "run to the store" 3-4 times a week.

I am at the point of seriously considering paying someone to help us plan our grocery spending and meal planning. Anything I can try first?

Read the response from Gary Foreman (aka The Dollar Stretcher") and get tips for slashing your own grocery bill here:
http://www.momscape.com/articles/grocery-bill.htm

New Article: At Home Spa Ideas

I've just published a new article at Momscape.com:
At Home Spa Ideas: Create Your Own At Home Spa in Six Easy Steps
Creating your own mini home spa is simple and affordable. Whether it's a daily, weekly, or monthly indulgence, here are six steps to creating your own luxurious at-home spa.

New Product Review: Cozy Coupe

I have just published a new product review on Momscape.com:
The Cozy Coupe, by Fisher Price.

Momscape Issue 6.8 now online

I've just published the June Momscape newsletter. You can read the issue here: Issue 6.8: What Our Children Teach Us, Brad Pitt's Diaper Bag and other great dad's day gifts
and click here to subscribe.

Loving Your Terrible, Terrific Toddler

I've just published a new article by parenting expert Laura Markham:

Loving Your Terrible, Terrific Toddler: 14 Tips

Toddlerhood can be a maddening time for parents. But you’ll be glad to know you can reduce your child’s rebellion by giving him freedom to do his developmental work.

How much is he allowed to explore? To set his own pace? To feel in control of his world? To discover that he’s a competent person? Can you appreciate his bids for independence without taking them as personal insults? Can you give up some control so he can develop some sense of mastery over his world?

Your baby is growing into her own person. Your challenge is to keep your sanity and keep her safe. Your best strategy is to cultivate a great relationship with her and enjoy her emerging independence. How?

1. Cultivate empathy for your child. Kids begin to develop empathy (and therefore, the ability to play well with others) as they themselves feel understood. And it’ll make you a better parent.

2. Don't force her to share. Instead, encourage taking turns. Let her put her favorite toys away before another child visits.

Read Parenting Toddlers tips 3 - 14 >

Father's Day Gift Ideas and Coupon Codes

We've just published our 2007 Father's Day Gift Guide, complete with gift ideas, as well as coupon codes and special offers from our favorite online merchants. Make sure to bookmark the site because we'll be adding new ideas, offers and coupon codes as they come in.

New Article: California Best Beaches

I've just posted a new travel article on Momscape.com. Plan some fun in the sun this summer with the help of this guide to six of California's Best Beaches:

"When it comes to fun in the sun, southern California has it all. With its year-round tropical climate, a year-round average water temperature of 78 degrees, perfect waves, excellent dining, and numerous oceanfront resorts, this earthly paradise also boasts picturesque harbors and a shimmering coastline filled with sand, surf and sun.

Not only is it home to millions of people but it beckons millions more each year from all over the globe. Whether you are a California resident headed to the beach to soak up the sun for a day, or you are planning a family vacation that your kids will remember for a long time to come, you are certain to find some beaches to add to your itinerary here.

Here are six of Southern California's best beaches. including nice, quiet beaches as well as beaches that are particularly nice for families..."

Continue reading California Best Beaches >

New Product Review: Butterfly Garden Papasan Cradle Swing

I've just posted a new product review:
The Butterfly Garden Papasan Cradle Swing, by Fisher Price.
Read more here: http://www.momscape.com/product-reviews/papasan-cradle-swing.htm

First Birthday Cakes

I've just published a new article by the founders of FreshBaby.com. It's for those of us who want to keep the tradition of a messy first birthday cake but want some healthier ideas.

It begins:

"Parents are often looking for a healthy alternative to the standard, sugary, preservative-filled birthday cake for their baby’s introduction to the wonderful traditions of birthdays. We’ve heard from parents looking for ways to buy an egg-free cake, to those seeking recipes for “healthy” cakes, or even whether to make/buy two cakes (one for Baby, one for adults).

To answer the last question first – there is no reason to create extra work for yourself, make or buy one cake, relax and congratulate yourself for making it through the first year! Most people will be gracious guests and enjoy whatever is served. And let’s not lose sight of the real reason for the birthday cake - THE PHOTO. We do it all for the precious scrapbook shot of your cake-faced little one delighting in being the life of the party!

Here are some ideas that keep the tradition of the birthday cake treat, but add some healthy twists (you can use these ideas for any age!)..."

Continue reading here: http://www.momscape.com/articles/first-birthday-cake.htm

New Product Review: Garmin Street Pilot c320 GPS Navigator

I've just published a new review on the Momscape site for the Garmin Street Pilot C320 GPS Navigator
Reviewer Marie Ynami of Redlands, California, begins:

"I love this gadget. I feel more confident leaving the house knowing that I will not get lost.

The Garmin Street Pilot c320 has a neat touch-screen which allows for quick access to features such as addresses, recent locations, food, and lodging - and it automatically puts you back on course when you make a wrong turn or run into traffic problems.." You can read her entire review here >

As of this writing, amazon.com has these Garmin units at a $470 savings. Click the link above for a direct link to the c320 at amazon.

Breast Cancer Scarves: Home Business Success and Breast Cancer Survivor Story

I've just posted a new article on Momscape.com profiling breast cancer survivor and business owner Barb Gunselman. It begins:

"One day during the holidays, completely bald from chemotherapy, I wanted to feel a little more feminine."

So begins the story of Barb Gunselman, an inspiring breast cancer survivor who is building her own business making beautiful breast cancer scarves (or bandanas, to be precise) adorned with Swarovski crystals.

We love to profile women who have built a business out of adversity, and Barb has done just that. In doing so, she celebrates initiative, femininity, and the power of a woman to rise above a diagnosis to create beauty and freedom in her life.

Read more >

New Momscape Newsletter: Mother's Day Fun, How to Look Thinner, 50% off Shoes, more

Here's the latest Momscape newsletter. If you would like to subscribe, you can do so here: http://www.momscape.com/subscribe.htm

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Momscape.com UPDATE
May 2007 - Mother's Day Fun, How to Look Thinner, 50% off Shoes, more
http://www.momscape.com/news-archives/Issue5vol8.htm


This week:

* This Week's Features
* New Coupon Codes
* New Product Reviews
* New Contests
* Momscape's Blogs

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NEW AT MOMSCAPE =============================

'MOMFULNESS' EXCERPT: THE RIVER
Here's a lovely excerpt from Denise Roy’s new book
'Momfulness: Mothering with Mindfulness, Compassion, and Grace.'
It’s called The River, and it’s a poignant reminder for parents that
“Everything is connected; everything changes; pay attention.”
http://www.momscape.com/articles/river-of-life.htm


QUICK AND EASY FAMILY MEALS
Time with the kids versus a home-cooked meal? You can have both!
Elizabeth Yarnell has some tips, as well as a delicious and healthy recipe.
http://www.momscape.com/articles/quick-easy-family-meals.htm


WAYS TO LOOK THINNER: 30 TIPS YOU CAN USE RIGHT NOW
You can appear more slender no matter what size you are. Here are quick tips you
can use today, including how to dress to look thinner, how to slenderize
your face using makeup, and how to look thinner for a picture.
http://www.momscape.com/articles/ways-to-look-thinner.htm


DISNEY TRAVEL TIPS AND COUPONS
With a little know how (and the help of the Internet and some online
coupon codes), you can plan the trip of a lifetime for a lot less
than you might think.
http://www.momscape.com/articles/disney-travel.htm


UNIQUE MOTHER'S DAY GIFT IDEAS
As moms, we know that the most endearing Mother’s Day gifts are those
with a personal, sentimental touch. This Mother’s Day, we’ve compiled
six suggestions for those gifts we’d most like to receive ourselves.
(Free free to share this article with your spouse.) ;)
http://www.momscape.com/articles/unique-mothers-day.htm


MORE MOTHER'S DAY ARTICLES AND IDEAS:

Mother’s Day Traditions
http://www.momscape.com/articles/mothers-day-traditions.htm

Mother’s Day Gift Ideas: Top Ten
http://www.momscape.com/articles/mothers-day-gifts.htm

Mother’s Day Gift Baskets
http://www.momscape.com/articles/mothersdaygifts.htm

History of Mother’s Day
http://www.momscape.com/articles/momsday.htm

50 Best Mom Quotes
http://www.momscape.com/articles/mother-quotes.htm

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NEW COUPON CODES ================================================

Here are our favorite new offers on Momscape:

EXPIRING SOON:

--> CHILDRENSPLACE.COM: 15% off your entire order
Coupon Code: SMA47
Ends May 6, 2007
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/childrens-place.htm

--> KOHLS.COM: 10% off your entire order
Coupon Code: NEW1829
Ends May 5, 2007
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/kohls.htm

--> LILLIAN VERNON: 20% off orders of $100 or more
Ends May 6, 2007
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/lillian-vernon.htm


NEW MAY OFFERS:

--> COOKING.COM: $10 off orders of $75 or more
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/cooking.htm
--> BEAUTY.COM: $10 off orders of $100 or more
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/beauty.htm
--> EBAGS.COM: $20 off when you spend $100 on luggage.
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/ebags.htm
--> FOLICA.COM: Free shipping and free travel bag with purchases of $75 or more
Plus, folica is now promotinjg a Sedu Special Offer: Free Sedu Iron Cleaner and
free silicone heatproof mat with New Sedu Revolution.
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/folica.htm

--> KOO KOO BEAR KIDS: $5 off orders of $50 or more
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/koo-koo-bear-kids.htm

--> OFFICE DEPOT: $30 off orders of $150 or more
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/office-depot.htm

--> SKINSTORE.COM: 10% off any order
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/skin-store.htm

--> SHOP.COM: $25 off $250

http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/shop.htm

--> SHOEBUY.COM: $10 off $30 when you use your Discover Card
Also, 10% off any purchase.
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/shoebuy.htm

--> TARGET.COM: 10% off any order
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/target.htm

--> BABIESRUS.COM: $10 off $30 when you use Google Checkout.
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/babies-r-us.htm

--> OVERSTOCK.COM: $14 off $140
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/overstock.htm

--> ZAPPOS.COM: Shoes up to 50% off
http://www.momscape.com/coupon-codes/shoes.htm


Don't forget to subscribe to our weekly deal alert for even more
coupons: http://www.susies-coupons.com/subscribe.htm
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NEW PRODUCT REVIEWS ==============================================

See what Moms are raving about: http://www.momscape.com/product-reviews

BOOK REVIEW: Momfulness:Mothering with Mindfulness, Compassion, and Grace
Denise Roy, author of My Monastery is a Minivan has published a new
“spiritual handbook” for busy moms. Here's our review:
http://www.momscape.com/product-reviews/momfulness.htm
MICRO SPY KIT
If your kids like Spy Kids, they’ll love this:
http://www.momscape.com/product-reviews/micro-spy-kit.htm

ALBA BOTANICA PINEAPPLE ENZYME FACIAL CLEANSER
http://www.momscape.com/product-reviews/alba-botanicals.htm

BUGABOO CHAMELEON STROLLER
http://www.momscape.com/product-reviews/bugaboo-chameleon-stroller.htm

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NEW CONTESTS =====================================================

WIN A HEATHROW/PAVILION LIVING SET ($2,994 value)
Monthly sweepstakes from The Bombay Company.
http://www.momscape.com/contests/


BABY PHOTO CONTEST
Enter your baby pictures into Babies Online's Photo Contest and
win hundreds of dollars in cash and prizes. Free Entry.
http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-296961-514030


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MOMSCAPE BLOGS ===================================================

Don't forget to visit and/or subscribe to our blogs:

MOMSCAPE'S FAVORITE THINGS
Fun finds from across the world wide web.
http://www.momscape.com/wordpress/category/momscapes-favorite-things/

Susie's DEAL OF THE DAY BLOG:
http://www.susies-coupons.com/daily-picks

Susie's TRAVEL DEAL OF THE DAY BLOG:
http://www.susies-coupons.com/travel-picks

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Hope you're having a great day so far!

Susie Cortright
Founder & Publisher, Susies-Coupons.com and Momscape.com

Ways to Look Thinner

I've just posted a new article on Momscape:
Ways to Look Thinner: 30 Tips You Can Use Right Now
You can appear more slender no matter what size you are. Here are quick tips you can use today, including how to dress to look thinner, how to slenderize your face using makeup, and how to look thinner for a picture.

Unique Mother's Day Gift Ideas: New gift guide at Momscape

This year, we decided to compile a list of the Mother's Day gifts we would most like to receive ourselves. (Who better to ask then a mom, right?)
Here's our 2007 Unique Mother's Day Gift Ideas

New Article: The River, excerpted from Momfulness

I've just published an excerpt from Denise Roy's new book "Momfulness: Mothering with Mindfulness, Compassion and Grace" on Momscape. Enjoy!
http://www.momscape.com/articles/river-of-life.htm

Review of Jeep Wrangler All Weather Stroller

We've just published a new review on Momscape.com: The Jeep Wrangler All-Weather Stroller. Even if you have a nice jogging stroller or another stroller for every day use, every parent needs a simple, throw-in-the-trunk kind of stroller that's easy and quick to set up, so your baby is never in need of a ride. Read what Sarah Grant from Rosemond, California had to say about the Jeep Wrangler Umbrella Stroller.